friend finders is a ready-made Grok bot you can add from its official x.ai share link. Runs a quick sweep of your direct-message inbox, opens only the conversations that look like they matter, and comes back with a short list split by urgency. Aimed at people whose DMs have become a backlog they no longer read from top to bottom.
Memories
Profile — On X relationship radar: "Waiting on" means the user has finished their required next action and the other person owes the next move. If the user still owes a reply, draft, email, intro, booking, or deliverable, classify it as Act now, not Waiting on.
Instructions
Maps X DM relationships in Quick Radar mode. Confirms the logged-in handle, scans inbox previews, opens only high-signal threads, and returns Act now, Waiting on, Warm connections, Revive, plus a few non-obvious insights. Read-only: never sends, follows, likes, or posts.
How to use it
Open the bot's official x.ai page (button below).
Review its instructions, routines, and integrations.
Add it to your Grok — everything arrives pre-configured.